A Catholic funeral is a sacred way to honor the life of the deceased, pray for the repose of their soul, and offer comfort to the grieving. It reflects our faith in Christ’s resurrection and the promise of eternal life, providing a space to mourn, remember, and entrust our loved ones to God’s mercy.

A Catholic funeral typically includes three parts:

The Vigil (or Wake): A time of prayer and reflection with family and friends, often held the evening before the funeral.

The Funeral Mass: A celebration of the Eucharist where we commend the deceased to God’s care and pray for their soul.

The Rite of Committal: The final prayers at the gravesite or columbarium, offering a sense of closure and entrusting the person to their resting place.

The last rites are a series of sacraments and prayers offered to those who are seriously ill or near death. These include the Sacrament of Anointing of the Sick, Confession (if possible), and Viaticum, which is Holy Communion given as food for the journey to eternal life. Contact a priest as soon as possible if a loved one is gravely ill or nearing death.

Yes, the Catholic Church permits cremation, provided it is not chosen for reasons contrary to Christian teachings. The Church asks that the cremated remains be treated with respect and placed in a sacred location, such as a cemetery or columbarium, rather than scattered or kept at home.

Non-Catholics are welcome to attend Catholic funerals and participate to the extent they are comfortable. They may join in prayers and hymns, but only practicing Catholics may receive the Eucharist during the Funeral Mass. The Church warmly embraces the presence of all who come to offer support and honor the deceased.

Start by contacting your parish to speak with the priest or deacon. They will guide you through the process, including choosing readings, hymns, and prayers, and coordinating with the funeral home. You’ll also discuss whether the funeral will include a Mass or simply a Liturgy of the Word.

Yes, children are welcome at Catholic funerals. Attending can help them understand the faith’s teachings on death and eternal life. It’s important to prepare them for what to expect and offer support during the service, especially if it’s their first experience with loss.

The Church offers pastoral care and prayers for families who are grieving. Many parishes have bereavement ministries, support groups, or counseling resources. Additionally, the Church encourages prayer, attending Mass, and finding comfort in the community of faith during this difficult time.

While the timing can vary based on family circumstances and local customs, a Catholic funeral is typically held within a few days to a week after the person’s death. Speak with your parish and funeral home to determine a date that accommodates everyone’s needs while honoring the sacred traditions.